About togetherness – 我們是一夥的

 

過去幾年都會一年數次會到內地做 corporate training, 最近有緣去了台灣教了一班 Sales and Marketing 的 middle to senior management about Presentation Skills。哈，現可以聲稱自己為大中華國際專業培訓師喇！因為要不斷練習自己的普通話， 所以自己常常用普通話自言自語。For some reasons, 其中有一句我經常掛在嘴上的就是， 「你們是一夥的。」  因為我比較多做 business/team coaching and couple therapy, 所以我經常在想，怎樣才能跟對方好好的「一夥」 (being together) 呢?

 

人哋養狗就話要放狗唧，自己因為極小用車，所以趁紅假，前幾天同 J 專登揸架車入元朗跟另一對朋友去了肥仔食神滔滔間大榮華酒樓飲茶，搵機會比架車做吓運動。嘩，間酒樓多人到吖， ended up 等了 > 一小時才有位。但又好彩比我哋見到滔滔喺度打緊躉喎。啲人成日話人上鏡比真人肥，係真嘅。

可能因為每個人 / 每 pair 人點同對方相處模式都大不同, 在我們對面的呢對朋友，他們全程都卿卿我我。 當然這不是一場 competition, 也沒有一個應該的拍拖相處的特定模式，但兩 pair 人相比之下，相形見絀。此情景又令我聯想起 “Togetherness” 呢個中心思想。

對我來說，我都算是一個表達型的人。鍾意/喜歡一個人我會用言語及行動話佢知 (Note: 不一定只 apply to 男女關係) 。但說到要表達你有意或持續想跟對方在一起(i.e. to be together) 的話, 這就不能夠好簡單直接的表達出來。若對方交足晒戲跟你說，「我真的好想同你喺埋一齊。」你真係會信嗎? 要知道，「鍾意」是即時的，是 snapshot, 是 now in the moment，是一個感覺; 「一齊」是 now -> future, 是需要有份心，是要用時間 persistently 去行出嚟。要同一個自己喜歡的人講句 「我愛你」或做一啲相關的 gestures 有幾難?!  但要同一個自己喜歡的人做到「一齊」就需要勇氣，信心 (對自已 and 對方) ，信任，決心，堅持及付出，需要雙方一起努力去苦心經營出嚟，所以一點也不簡單，也沒可能可以簡單的表達出來。

若果你身邊有個男 / 女朋友的話 (Note:  先唔好計 look)，我想問吓你，你寧願 a) 同一個跟你一齊終日飲飲食食，奉到你上天做公主 / 大少，千依百順，隨傳隨到吖, 抑或 b) 同一個可能偶有甩漏，未必係最善解人意、甜言蜜語，但對你是真心真意，願意每天進步去跟你在「一齊」的人?  人大喇，找一個情人跟找一個伴侶是不一樣的。 First, please don’t ever dream that you can find BOTH a lover and a partner in the SAME person.  It is like 1 in a 1,000,000 chance so don’t count on you being THAT lucky person!  So, 若果你只可以二選其一，你的選擇會係…? 

路係自己行出嚟嘅。而你我從來都有權選擇，也從來不停的作出選擇。所以請不要將自己的人生交予別人幫你作決定。咁唔係叫 respect 而係逃避，要別人改變去遷就自己の不負責任行為。

祝你們有一段關係是相方都有 togetherness の 意圖及有 love の 感覺。  Be hopeful!

Merry x’mas to you all

先在此向大家說聲 “Merry Christmas” and 感謝你對我的 blog 一直の支持 (or thanks for coming here and read my blog for the 1^st time!)

 

今日趁節日前、天氣又極好下跟 J 吃過早餐後遊歷吓灣仔啲細街仔。都幾 adventurous 架。例如我們途經一間名為 “Hong Kong’s most haunted house” (事緣途中遇到一個 Swedish 遊客拿著一本 tour book 說的。  Of course, 我們趁機盡吓香港人好客之道介紹吓其他好玩必到之處喇! 唔行都唔知，原來灣仔啲細街咁有 local 風味、啲 shop 仔咁有特式架喎!  Interesting!

晚上作了 180 度轉變，去了尖沙咀同人迫！皆因約了另一對 couple一齊去了尖沙咀一間教堂做 service。很有耶誕 (Taiwan 叫法) 氣氛呢!

 

當這邊廂大家普天同慶，那邊廂越來越多人談論末世; 當這邊廂聰哥與千億財產無緣，那邊廂穎妹「好開心」咁就十二億袋袋平安; 當這邊廂老麥全城熱哄的「大富翁」頭獎信用卡一百萬元簽帳額已名花有主，那邊廂日本有位 88 歲婆婆守田溝仍有心有力在三年前以19秒83的成績創下85歲以上高齡組「百米鐵人田徑」世界紀錄，至今還沒有人能把它打破。(http://news.joy.cn/video/3255330.htm)

世界已變得越來越光怪陸離，步履越來越日趨光速，我們更應學懂自處，不要人云亦云。就算今年 Christmas 是否最後，我們從來都應活出自己，積極做好自己架喇，唔係咩?  No difference whether 末日 or not 唧, right?! 人哋日本婆婆可以 70 歲才 pick up 田徑，天天為自己的目標而努力，為甚麼我們咁多人天天的不停自怨自艾，大叫懷才不遇呢? 放鬆啲，睇開啲，望遠啲，海闊天空呀！實有路行架!

 

 

我 2011 年收爐喇。今年最後一個 training event 是 NLP 第23 班的畢業整合課。看見一班準畢業的 NLP 同學跟他們的 guests の分享，真的 reinforce 自己這六年多「能讓自己和身邊的人更能助人自助地穫得成功和快樂」のNLP教學理念。好鼓舞!!!  同一時間，我二十多位smart-smart NLP 準Master Practitioners 正為他們的畢業 projects 努力中!  Ganbatte!!!

(P.S.  非常 Like Prac 23 designed 的 class photo!  Very funny and metaphorical!  Thank you!)

 

至於我的 2012 年, 有三件大事將會發生 (cross my fingers)!!! 適當時候再跟你們分享吖!  Stay tuned!

 

Wish you all a very great 2012!!!  我成日都話，人的一生痛一定有，但並不一定苦。所以大家都要積極令自己開心快樂啲，對自己好啲!!!  加油呀!!!

What a pleasant surprise!!!

 

 

有得選擇，通常好少星期一 run training, simply because 自己星期日 (sometimes both 星期六 and 星期日) 通常都會 run NLP training, 所以都會有丁點攰，但更重要係啲 participants 通常都係 being here but not here, Monday Syndrome 也!

通常還通常，今早仍是替香港會計師公會 (HKICPA) run 了一個 3-hour 的 Stress Management workshop。好 surprised見到十八個好有心有神的會計同業來上堂。他們不單醒神無恰眼瞓，仲好積極參與呢!!!   They really made my day!!! 好開心!

我覺得自己真係好好彩，可以有幸做著一份自已好喜愛好投入的工作 (i.e. being a trainer, a coach and a therapist) 。你哋都係呀，成世人流流長，一定要努力讓自己:

1.   Love what you do

2.   Love who you are with

3.   Love who you are (i.e. your role)

即使當年做 audit and in-house training我都真係 enjoy 架!!!  對我嚟講，love or hate 其實只是 perception (看法), 所以是自己可以 control到的!

不過要說今天令我最驚喜的莫過於 workshop 完了之後有兩位 participants 跟我說有看我的 blog, 內容令他們得到一些 positive 的想法，希望我可以多有些發表文章。(OK, 收到! Thank you for your kind support!!! What a great joyful bonus I got from you both today!!! :>)

搬進新居已個多月，一切已 settled down, 自己當然每天都 very much enjoy 著。更重要是 J 跟 Creamy 也很愛新居 (見圖就知 Creamy 有幾 enjoy 喇!) 。很滿足。我覺得居所大或小原來真係其次，最重要是屋內有沒有 love and warmth! 自小我都認為屋企是一個很重要的地方。無論出面有多大風大雨，屋企永遠都是一個 best rejuvenating shelter (回氣の地方)! 請努力去建立及維繫一個互愛的家!  Nothing is more important than that! 

三十小神仙 – 感動參與

好久不見!!!

最近數月公私兩忙，更第一次 NLP Practitioner and Master Practitioner Programmes 同步梅花間竹地進行中。過去的一個 weekend 終於感覺自己再次 back to basic, back to normal…my 1^st time since 1 year ago!!!

 

星期六跟 J 一齊去看只此一場的《三十小神仙》。自問自己是聽電台節目《三個小神仙》長大的一群，當年也很理所當然的成為林姍姍的忠實 fans。三十年 wow 一聲咁過去了，前晚看著聽著阿旦跟姍姍在台上說著自己過去三十年的點滴、苦與樂，我們的那三十年 (i.e. 1981-2011) 也好像在我的腦海中快速地回帶一遍。那些年…我們一起走過的日子。

 

我覺得個 show 令好我感動。阿 Lam 的出現，三人合唱《三人行》; 阿旦說他的「衰三年」經歴; 姍姍憶述她自己當年去美國產女以及跟陳百強及羅文的點滴，令我深深領悟他倆所說的兩句:

 

「這刻的低潮可能正是下個高潮的開始。」-- 阿旦

 

「機會只會給予有準備的人。」-- 羅文 (as quoted by 姍姍)

 

好可能今日我們正處於低潮深海中，但請咬緊牙關，沉著應戰，事情最終都會過去的。三十年不是一個短時間，回望自己過去三十年的一些高低潮，我慶幸自己並沒放棄。正如個 show 的主題: 過去的經歴，今天的啟示，我們得到的遠比付出的多。

 

感謝在我前半生出現過的所有人和事。感恩我能幹著自己熱愛有意義的工作和在我身邊對我不離不棄、愛著我的你和你。只要仍是活著，生命仍是精采!

 

 

愛得累嗎?

最近一連看了兩齣關於愛情の電影 《情約一天》和舞台劇 《3D 女槍手》，不約而同令我諗著這條問題:  「為乜要愛」?

實情是很多人窮一生去找愛最終失望而回或繼續等愛；一些人曾經擁有愛最後卻失去愛；只有非常少的人「覺得」自已找到真愛。

是愛與否、是真是假、是有是無我認為只是自已的一個「覺得」而矣。一直以為 Seeing is Believing (給我見到是為真!) 是真理其實是 Believing is Seeing!  As long as 我們相信一些事是事實、認為一些事是重要、覺得一些事是正確，你便會很 motivate 去實踐並找很多的例經證去 validate 你的所思所想。

就上面提及的電影和舞台劇的女主角們都經歷過愛的洗禮令她們領會到以下的數點最終令她們修成正果:

1.      Take ownership that you are part of the cause of what happens to you – blame others and the environment for what they did to you is always too easy but never helpful; reflect on what you might have been done to cause this to happen, evaluate their impact on your loved one and on the relationship and see what you can do differently to make it right.

2.      Ask yourself, “is the person really that important to you?”  If so, then weight between your “ego” and “him/her” and adjust accordingly.  最近看過一篇羅敏莊跟陳國邦的訪問。Mimi 不諱言是她主動追求陳國邦的, 既然我們成日都喊著要男女平等，那麽我們又為甚麼咁介意邊個追邊個、邊個揾錢多過邊個、邊個付出多過邊個?  會計算咁多的話，我想好奇問吓你，「你有幾愛佢」?   Be reminded ladies, as beautiful, capable and available as you, 現今很多 (or太多?!) 的男性不單溝通真的越嚟越不濟的同時，他們在各方面也真的跟你們越嚟越「平等」。所以希望你們能接受這是事實的同時，儘量去發掘及 focus on 他們有和好的東西吧。

3.      Ask yourself, “do you enjoy being with him/her?”  說到底，為乜要愛呢? Love is meant to be enjoyable not torturing!  若果跟她/他一起一段時間後仍覺得一點都唔享受的話，你真係要諗清楚!!!
但是甚麼才算在愛情這課題上「修成正果」?  很簡單, 最好的自已是不論你在一個環境、一段關係、或一個人面前它都能夠讓你活得自信、自在、自若。  Wish you well!

By the way, 糊塗戲班的《3D 女槍手》值得推介，好睇好笑好戲 (esp. 廖淑芬飾演 Diane 的角色 - 好出!!!). 套戲會在 23-25 September 喺香港大會堂上演。有興趣去睇吖。作為女士的你們，看時應該或多或少會有共鳴。  Enjoy the show!

回家真好!!!

返香港已個多星期，一切也回復正常 (including my jetlag) 。始終都係覺得香港是最好的!!!

屈指一算，原來我已不經不覺寫了兩年多的 blog，由最初被前經理人 B 鼓勵下開始把自己的所思所想以及對 NLP 的一些看法寫出來。某天晚上偶然看了一看 blog の「统計資料」裡的累積瀏覽數字剛好是 40,000 人次。 Wow, 喜出望外呀!  雖然對好多 bloggers 嚟講，呢個數字好濕碎，但對我, I feel so happy & grateful!!! 喂，你又唔係名人，而家又咁多人 facebook, twitter, 微博，你寫果啲嘢又唔係好有 noise 或controversial!!!  有咁多人睇過你啲文字，我已經好滿足!!!  多謝你哋呀!!!

最近看過一篇報導，說 2010 最暢銷的文字書是鄭秀文的《值得》。但 “wow” 的是，加印再加印出了好多版卻原來都是賣了萬多本（希望當中不包括 e-book 吧）。真不知香港人仲買唔買、睇唔睇書既呢？其實我已有計劃想再寫兩本書，但觀乎現在的閱讀文化，真係唔係太有推動力…umm!

講起推動力，回港後第一個 training event 便是主持了第二十二班 NLP Practitioner Certification Programme 的畢業日。跟廿多名參加者很開心的過了一個 very fruitful 的晚上。當中有 participant 跟我說覺得我今次習訓回來後好像不同了，好似「升咗呢」!!!  真令人鼓舞。要繼續加油將自己所學到的 NLP skills & knowledge 透過最好的自己 (include my attitude and unique training style) 把它最 resourceful 的給予我的學生。咁就功德無量喇!  :> 

下一班 NLP Practitioner Certification Programme九月底開班，學生們，請接招!

他們畢業了!!!

十八天的課程、十八天的汗水、十八天的鍊歷，他們畢業了!!! 我又多了四十多位同門師弟、師妹、NLP 同業。

作為他們的 coach，在這十八天裡我們的工作是啟發他們對 NLP の深層認知、對教學の掌握、以及應具備一個怎樣の心態和態度去做一個 bullet-proof, all rounded の NLP trainer in their own context (with cultural, geographical and perspective differences) 。

作為一個 NLP Master Trainer candidate, 在這十八天對我們來說也是一個 practical 的on-the-job training去訓練我們的 flexibility, endurance and most importantly, whether 我們能否 walk-the-talk, 做一個 walking example, 一個 role-model, 甚至 demonstrate 比他們更高層次的 Master Trainer 料子。所以在工作之餘，我們也同時被評核呢 (by 老師 & 學生)! 所以呢個 trip 都幾 challenging。

說回來，作為同學 G, 同學 M, 同學 W的NLP 啟蒙老師，原來親歷見証著他們畢業終於跟自己一樣成為 NLP trainer, 感覺真的好感動!!! 我成日同佢地講，呢個課程學嘅不再是 NLP の 內容而是 NLP の application 及在如何 get through 及 enjoy 整個過程 (i.e. the process) 。由 1^st day 見到他們的青澀到 last day 在眉宇間那份對 training 的初發自信, 呢啲咪叫 transformation 囉! :>

 

During the course, 不只一次有同學仔走嚟同我講: “You know, I find among the group of us, G, M and W are very good with their stuff.  They really know what they are doing and know what they are talking about.  They are good, man!  You should be proud of them!!!”  I said, “I am highly proud of them.” It is true.  見到他們的 commitment, 勤奮以及在各方面の表現和進步，我簡直有面上燙金的感覺!!! G, M, W, 感謝你們的付出和努力。你們真的令我感到很自豪 (though I know you have had some pressure needing to do well with my presence.  Yet, I always have good faith in you all)… 真係仲開心過自己比人讚! 相信這就是「薪火相傳」的真諦及感受吧。 真的期待目睹更多自己的學生將成為 NLP 培訓界有心有力の生力軍，為社會帶來多些成功和快樂的人!!!  這正是 NLP 的精神及存在價值。

在衆多 coaches 當中，Coach K 今年畢業喇! 她成為北美首位 American Board of NLP certified master trainer (除咗老師 Tad & Adriana James 外喇 of course!)!  五年努力付出後の成果，掌聲鼓勵!!!  Very happy for her.  為了自己來日有期 の 「中國首位」，她會是我的 role model, 我的目標, 甚至是一個要超越的對象。
要成功，有目標 (SMART goal)，堅毅 (perseverance), 內在平安的心 (inner peace), 清明心 (clarity), 你就有約!  一起 Ganbatte!!!

同一樣的天空，不一樣的心情

今天是課程的第二次 day off。起床後去了 Five Guys 食 burger and fries (hey, 在 US, 係食呢啲架喇!  OK 的!) 。

之後在街逛吓逛吓經過一間 pawn shop，好奇下入咗去睇吓。裡面乜都有得賣喎。Hi-fi, i-pod, i-phone, TV, guitars, drums, jewelry, watches, DVD, games, 連車呔都有得賣。正當我睇得入神之際，有個男人拿著一支很漂亮很新的吉他幽幽的走入舖頭去典當，賣了二百多元後低著頭悄悄然走了。

看著今天的報紙，報導著美國經濟會如何差，股市又會繼續向下尋底等等。我輕望窗外，微風樹動、光照依然。

經過大堂，碰到數位 trainer candidates 正在努力為未來的四天 evaluation 作最後衝刺。看見他們有的滿有信心、有的默然不語、有的面帶憂慮。形形色色，實像社會の一個最佳縮影。而我，便繼續享受著今天的 day off, 寫吓 blog，睇吓書 (cos 之後數天會非常忙碌改卷, 120% 專心做 assessment…yeek!)。

我們的人生，好彩唔好彩，我們條路都應該仲有排行。雖然要行多遠唔知，沿途有無風光又唔知，天氣係點都唔知，但既然係咪都係繼續行，就行得開心啲喇。你可以話上面條路好長、天氣好熱、成件事好悶好 dry；相對地你也可以覺得條路好平好直、天氣很好、環境好寧靜。講到底都係你我點睇件事和周圍環境啫!

我在想，這一刻你我正分享著同一樣的天空，在香港的你，是否跟我有著同一樣的心情？

Training at the desert

Having training in Henderson (a suburban city 15 minutes from Las Vegas in Nevada) is quite a good experience.  Weather is nearly sunny and super-hot every day (some days over 40 degrees).  But it isn’t too bad because it is dry.

Today is the 10^th day of training and the participants are entering into an exciting moment in learning as they will be having their 2^nd mock presentation (to be evaluated and commented by coaching assistants).  Next week, they will be evaluated real time for qualification as NLP trainers.  These days both the participants and us as coaching assistants have been working hard, having late hours in training (yesterday till 9pm) trying to put things in order to set forth for the evaluation next week. 

One evening after class, I passed by a participant having her hands full of grocery.  This participant from England told me that she hadn’t had “real” food for the past week so she bought US$250 worth of grocery from Albertsons and was heading back to her room to cook some real meat and fresh vegetable!  Poor soul!  For me, the food at the hotel is of course not considered as fabulous but still OK.  It is rather the timing of having them that is not ideal.  Normally, they treat dinner from 5-7pm Monday to Thursday, but we are still having class at that time so we have to literally shuffle food into our mouth during a super short dinner break (with line-up for food) before we engage into an exercise until evening. 

Well, for me, I see it only as temporal yet when you look back, it will be good learning experience in becoming a bullet-proof solid NLP trainer once you get certified.  It is a good process that we as NLP trainer ought to go through.  As coaching assistants, our job is to ensure they are on track, hanging in the process and help them get what they truly want for their career.  As a master trainer candidate, I value the experience I am having here so I know crystal clear what it takes for me to certify my 1^st batch of NLP trainer in soon future!

However, I do miss my cat sooooo much and am glad I see her in this latest photo and will be back by late next week!

關於學習

今日是 NLP trainers’ training的第四日，也是 participants其中最辛苦的一天。見到他們令我不期然想起當年的自己。當年辛苦努力下得到 Certified NLP Trainer 的專業資格後真正改變了我的人生、其做人態度，甚至career path，令我做著一份很 rewarding and inspiring 幫人助己的工作。是辛苦但非常值得。

今天我的一位 NLP 學生 W 跟我閒聊問我當年為何能夠從課堂中 pick up 和吸收到這麼多的東西 (when most of them are getting quite confused at the moment!) ，因為她發覺在我的 training 裡我用上了很多 Dr. Tad James 在課堂上所教所做的東西。作為 participant 當年我著眼的是學習怎樣做一個出色的 trainer (what)。 今次作為老師的其中一位 coaching assistant (by the way 我這三星期的工作是 volunteer 的), 我要學的是他為何 (why) 和如何 (how) train 一班出色的 trainer。 Focus 不同，縱然是同一個課程，但所學到的卻完全不一樣。若果真正用心學習的話，就一定可以從任何經歷中學習到一些東西。即使可能未能即時受用都一定唔會嘥!!! 相信我，做人千祈唔好怕蝕底，有人比機會我地去學嘢，一定要好好把握。  You never know!

還有，正所謂學海無涯，人是應該不斷的自我提升而不是固步自封。當你覺得自己好像很舒服、順暢、安逸的時候，那可能就是醒覺需要再進一步之時矣。

世界只有 1% 的人能得到真正的成功…你會是其中一個嗎?

My NLP journey at the desert

Oops, looking back it has been a while since my last blog.  Been hectically busy lately with NLP and other training engagements in July and in getting ready for my annual study trip.  As many of my dear bloggers recall, my last year’s study trip was going to Beijing to pick up my Putonghua last August.  I am grateful to say I have been doing quite a lot of training engagements ever since where they required me making delivery in Putonghua both in HK and major cities in China.  I can see more of these engagements are coming.  Results are always the outcome from where your mind goes and your energy flows…that’s a fundamental NLP belief that is highly sensible and empowering.

For this year, the location is Las Vegas!  A big career decision was made for me to go for a higher level of qualification in NLP…to become a NLP master trainer.  It is a process that comes naturally to my profession after the years I have trained and graduated hundreds of NLPers.  Since I qualified as a certified NLP trainer in 2004, I have been running NLP practitioner and master practitioner certification programmes.  Many of my graduates want me to run the very next level of NLP training for them, i.e. NLP trainers’ training programme so they are able to attain one of the most prestigious qualifications you can get both in NLP and in the training field.  I also think it is about time…

So here I am, taking the master trainer programme here in Las Vegas with the world biggest NLP certification body, American Board of NLP.  We are on our 2^nd day of training and it is highly rewarding so far.  It is good to have 3 of my NLP master practitioners coming along as candidates for NLP trainers.  What’s even more promising is I am eye-witnessing how great and performing my NLP graduates are as they mingle and share their learning experience with other candidates from different countries like US, Canada, England, South Africa, Korea, etc.  As their trainer, what more can I ask for (真係夫復何求)?

And of course, it is always good to see and learn from my two dear master trainers, Drs. Tad and Adriana James!  Will see how this journey will turn out!!! I am sure it is going to be great!!!

Lost in LA

一口氣寫兩篇 blog, 只因為有太多東西想 share 喇!

去 Las Vegas 上堂之前先去了 Los Angeles  和 Las Vegas 大道 (i.e. The Strip) 玩了幾日順道探探好朋友 S！

跟大家分享一些有趣軼事及加州陽光吖!

有無見過這樣的一個 McD 招牌呢？ 它是麥當勞前身 Airdrome在 Monrovia, California的原址 (in 1937) 。咁啱我所住の hotel剛在隔籬，早上去吃早餐才發現!

 

真係好多年都未試過去沙灘除鞋濕腳玩水呢! (雖然沒有游水…嘩，啲水好凍呀！) 但在加州陽光和咁靚的沙灘下 (Santa Monica Beach) ， 真係無得抗拒! :>  晚上還跟好朋友 S 和她的 family 去 picnic 呢!  This is really “living” 呀!!!  好 enjoy!!!

去 Las Vegas 其中一個節目就是睇 show 喇!  一個是 David Cooperfield、另一個是 stage hypnosis show by Marc Savard!  Wow, when a hypnotherapist meets a stage hypnotist!!! 接招!

幾年沒來 Las Vegas, the ever famous “The Strip” (i.e. Las Vegas Blvd) 金光燦爛、紙醉如昔。It was just like yesterday…like ever! (不過真係「好」熱!!! 每次一出室外，那股熱風讓你彷似站在冷氣機 generator旁邊一樣!!!  好彩是乾熱 (vs. 香港の濕熱) 。

A vision to transform the planet

Although this event happened quite a while ago (28 May) and I have already kinda covered it in another blog of mine earlier in the month, I still find it very exciting to share my joy with you all re how much happiness I see on my participants' face!  I am truly proud of them and they all me feel so grateful re doing what I am doing in making a small difference to the community and in people's mind.

Take a look at the happy faces ar:

http://www.kornerstone.com.hk/pastevents/NLPer_reunion_28May2011/

I always remember my teacher, Dr. Tad James' vision:  Transform the Planet.  This is especially true after I watched  the movie "2012" over the weekend for the 2nd time.  The world is definitely getting more and more challenging these days in many aspects, we need to really hold tight to our beliefs, love those around us and stay happy wherever possible.  Though it seems like a long way to be able to do what my teacher is doing, I think we are all capable in making small steps day-by-day in making the world a better place, can we?!

With the support to my dear participants, I will continue to move on, be better, stay positive for what I do and for who I am as a certified NLP trainer, a master coach and most importantly, a normal human being.  You too, right?!

Dr. Happy @ the airport awaiting for boarding to Shanghai for a few days of corporate training!