Sunday, March 3, 2013

增強男女關係的一點啟示


忽然諗到啲睇法,睇吓會否對你有所啟發。若你想跟你的伴侶有一段美滿啲嘅關係,你可以嘗試實踐以下的相處模式:

當大家都心情好的時候,大家應盡力 go crazy with it, enjoy the moments to the most, and remember these moments。將來有機會拎返出嚟講吓。

當他/她心情唔好的時候 (assume not because of you),你做乜都好,千祈唔好發脾氣,首先盡力去令自己感覺正面,然後用盡力去氹佢 (regardless令佢唔開心的事情 make make sense都好)千祈唔好喺果個時候同佢講道理或說教

當大家都心情唔好的時候 (assume not because of each other),大家各自抽離一下,搵啲自己鍾意做嘅野自己去做吓,唔好搞大家一會兒。大半天才約大家去食餐飯,盡量唔好去傾件事,除非對方想傾。若是如此,用心聆聽但盡量唔好比意見

當你心情唔好的時候 (assume not because of him/her),盡量盡快令自己無事,千祈唔好有期望對方會去氹你開心。若果 he or she does it,這是 super big bonus!!!  That will make you feel even happier.  靠自己喇,老友。