Friday, April 18, 2014

A perfect day


 

假若你有一個異於常人的能力能讓你回到過去去改寫你的一些事情,你會否做?會做的話,你又會想改寫甚麼?

 

最近新居事宜終於接近尾聲,所以有時間一連看了兩齣電影《掃毒》以及《回到最愛的一天》(About Time) 。昨天也鋪天蓋地聽到一則關於一名19歲女生入讀港大醫學院因在 FB 自述自己八歲偷渡來港終獲港府給予香港身份證講多咗因而被網民勁插的報導。這三件本來沒有關係的事情卻令我深入思考關於「選擇」(Choice) 這課題。

 

若時間可以倒流的話

 

《回到最愛的一天》男主角為了想令自己的初夜變得完美因而回到過去三次

 

電影裡的劉青雲會否因選擇了張家輝 (而不是古天樂) 從而改寫命運?

 

19歲黃同學若果知道自己發表文章後會被網民狂插的話,她又會否因此而收回或修改其posting?

 

 

電影裡主角解讀了要快樂開心的話,其實有兩個方法:

 

若時間可以倒流的話

 

在你我過了平凡的一天後,再回到過去,然後再盡量過同一生活,但卻留意事情裡應該值得開心的正面細節。

 

但若果你跟我一樣都只是一個平凡人,沒能力回到過去的話

 

We should start enjoy the extraordinary in our ordinary day.  Make every minute counts, do our best to treasure what we have and who we are with…and do our best to be our best.

 

For me, though I made quite a few controversial decisions and had taken actions that were costly, yet I never fond of going back in time to make changes to them…simply because all these decisions and actions all help shape up our life of who we are today.  We should acknowledge, accept and appreciate all decisions, actions and people we met  instead of trying to change or delete them.

 

In NLP, there is saying, “People make the best decision available to them at the time they make it.”  Honour our decision and action made and let us move on with our life with no regrets!  This way, every day of our life will be filled with perfect days!

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