忽然諗到啲睇法，睇吓會否對你有所啟發。若你想跟你的伴侶有一段美滿啲嘅關係，你可以嘗試實踐以下的相處模式：
當大家都心情好的時候，大家應盡力 go crazy with it, enjoy the moments to the most, and remember these moments。將來有機會拎返出嚟講吓。
當他/她心情唔好的時候 (assume not because of you)，你做乜都好，千祈唔好發脾氣，首先盡力去令自己感覺正面，然後用盡力去氹佢 (regardless令佢唔開心的事情 make 唔 make sense都好)。千祈唔好喺果個時候同佢講道理或說教。
當大家都心情唔好的時候 (assume not because of each other)，大家各自抽離一下，搵啲自己鍾意做嘅野自己去做吓，唔好搞大家一會兒。大半天才約大家去食餐飯，盡量唔好去傾件事，除非對方想傾。若是如此，用心聆聽但盡量唔好比意見。
當你心情唔好的時候 (assume not because of him/her)，盡量盡快令自己無事，千祈唔好有期望對方會去氹你開心。若果 he or she does it，這是 super big bonus!!! That will make you feel even happier. 靠自己喇，老友。
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